Saturday 27 July 2013

Hi folks,

I came across an article posted on facebook namely, 'how to lose belly flab with this 1 simple trick', anyway out of curiosity I looked at it and yes of course they want to give you a free trial but only after you have handed over your hard earned money, or bank details. (Which amounts to the same thing.)

Over the years I, like so many other women have despaired at my belly flab, or mummy tummy not to mention my bingo wings and muffin tops and have tried numerous and varied diets.  I've bought the pills and the books, tried the meals and the shakes used the supplements and alternative treatments all to no avail. Here's a pic of me taken about 5 years ago, I'm the heffer in the middle.
The clever people may recognise Sylvie hiding away at the back.
 The other guys are various members of my beautiful and slim family. My point is though that although I hated my size and often despaired, which of course meant believing all the hype from the money makers of fight flab city, I wasted more money constantly by pouring it into yet more diets.  A couple of years ago I was so depressed about it and as a last resort I went to see my G.P. a remarkable woman who has a habit of saying IT, like IT is.  She told me a real secret.  Seriously the woman needs a medal, the answer was there all the time and I couldn't see it. So blinded by pictures of 'before and after shots', so hooked on handing over my hard earned cash for quick fixes, I just didn't see it. Want to know the secret? Do ya? Well dear reader take a look at this, then I'll tell you. 

(Obviously I didn't write it, the article was in 'The Huffington Post' and I just had to share it. So my grateful thanks to the writer Andrew Dixon.)


Andrew Dixon

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Seduced by the Illusion: The Truth About Transformation Photos

Posted: 07/24/2013 10:16 am

There is no doubt that we live in a world of manipulation, false promises and exaggerated claims. This is especially true in the fitness industry. I've been a personal trainer for more than 11 years, and clients and friends are always telling me about the next amazing diet or exercise program. Like Insanity or P90X hold the secrets to fat loss.
The reasons these programs become so popular is because they are presented and marketed very well. These marketing campaigns use testimonials and before-and-after transformation photos. Before I claim it's all bullshit, I want to make it clear that there are definitely some very impressive, genuine physical transformations out there. What I do take issue with are the transformations that are manipulated with Photoshop, professional lighting, postures to degrade or enhance their look, pro tans, sucking in or pushing out a bloated belly or flexing muscles vs. not flexing to obtain an optimal look.
In my opinion, these photos are selling false or exaggerated promises of what 90 days, etc., of their program can achieve. Long-lasting results take years of consistency, hard work and dedication. Results that happen quickly are often temporary, and this is another factor that needs to be taken into account when looking at these transformations. Did the individual cut calories to starvation levels or cut out entire food groups to reach a very low body fat percentage for the photo shoot, only to rebound a few days or weeks later? This must be considered when setting your goals and expectations based on someone's program.
I decided to take my own transformation photos to see what was possible with just a few easy tweaks. About six months ago I was around 185 pounds and about 16 percent body fat. I was feeling particularly bloated on the day, so I asked my girlfriend to take a before shot. I then shaved my head, face and chest and prepared for the after shot, which was about an hour after I took the before shot. I did a few push ups and chin ups, tweaked my bedroom lighting, sucked in, tightened my abs and BOOM! We got our after shot.
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As you can see, I'm no bodybuilder, but I had enough muscle on me to catch some shadows from the all-important overhead lighting.
Just a few weeks ago I took another series of photos in an attempt to be a little more deceptive. I wanted to show a series of progressions that look like a few months of hard work and dieting. I'm about 200 pounds and 19 percent body fat in this photo series. This took under an hour to produce.
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What's my point? Don't try to look like anyone you see in a transformation photo. Be inspired, but don't be disappointed if you don't see yourself the way you see those models. Being tricked into eating low-calorie diets and doing endless cardio is a recipe for fat gain, especially in the long term.
Forget about the quick transformations and focus on a life of healthy eating, well-managed stress levels, quality sleep and plenty of movement. Spend time with people who have similar goals and values and take time to appreciate yourself the way you are right now. Don't beat yourself up if you eat a cookie, just enjoy that cookie and everything else life has to offer.
We all spend too much time sucking in our guts, trying to look the way we think society thinks we should. Don't waste any more energy trying to compete with everyone else.
It's all smoke and mirrors.
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Hi guys, it's me again now... 
Is that not just amazing, The pics remind me of one of the books I bought and spent time devouring, whilst lining the writers pocket!
OK. well the secret my GP told me was this...
'Think about what you are eating and exercise more, it's Not rocket science Delia. No one puts the food into your mouth but you!
So stunned by this revelation I went home and thought about it. She's right I decided and of course then went out for chips... (JOKING!) but I did very little exercise and although my job means I'm always on my feet I don't actually move around alot and in my leisure time I'm mostly at the computer. ( I was still writing The Tessellation Saga, book 1 at the time ) Anyway, I looked online, found a free calorie counter for my iphone (my fitness pal) and signed up. You can eat and drink exactly what you want so long as you put it into your iphone and take the calorific value away from your calorie limit. So my penchant for chocolate was still entirely satisfied, I also looked around for some sort of exercise. Not Gym style as I have found this boring and non productive in the past.




 I eventually found Alex Henry and ZUMBA! There's me at the front in black. It's fun, fast, loud and it works! The music is fantastic and you can't help dancing along to it.  So, from a nearly 12 stone heffer I have, over the last few years lost over 3 stone in weight.


This is me in Dec last year, on the beach in Antigua with my then brand new daughter in law. I do feel so much better, have bags more confidence and best of all I have very little loose skin and no Bingo Wings.




So, next time you are looking at the images of 'before and after' and thinking of spending money for a quick cure remember DON'T DO IT! Keep your money where it does most good. IN YOUR OWN POCKET, and remember what my GP said.

'Think about what you are eating and exercise more, it's Not rocket science Delia.
                                   No one puts the food into your mouth but you!'

Well there you go, I'm not a diet guru but hopefully common sense will out at the last...

Til next time, byeeeeeeee

:)

Wednesday 17 July 2013

'I Vow To Thee My Country'

Hi Guys,

     I wasn't sure about writing happy and jolly 'stuff'after seeing Shane on the day he died, his wife very graciously allowed me to come say goodbye in person, I held his hand and he squeezed my fingers when I told him how much we all loved him and how he would be sorely missed. I even managed to make him laugh. (I can't say how but it was funny!) Then later that day Jane let me know he had gone.  I wasn't going to write this post, in fact I had something entirely different in mind  for today but as soon as I sat, well... you know how it is.
     His  funeral was amazing  and I suddenly thought he would want the world to know we were all there, that most of us were dressed in VERY bright colours and 60% of the mourners were dressed in pink, Shanes favourite colour. Personally I wore a bright Orange Jacket, a white boob tube and a pair of high waisted very wide legged brown, orange, yellow and green trousers.
     Family and friends from outside work attended and so many older friends from Heathrow's old Terminal 2, as well as many of his new friends from Terminal 5, I hope the attendance did both he and his wife Jane proud.
     The hurst arrived attended by a couple of Harley Davidson bikes, a roar of goodbye from the engine revs could have been heard for miles and seeing big ruff tough bikers in tears was a very touching indeed, it shows how much Shane was loved. The coffin itself was covered in a Union flag and all his medals were displayed on the top. We even sang 'I vow to thee my Country' as his goodbye hymn. We listened to tales from his military service history, learnt about his affinity with horses and his love of family, of Mrs Wabbit, and could see her love for him! I think he would have been moved to see us all there for them both.
     After the ceremony, we all traipsed down to the pub where we laughed and joked, some of us cried a little too, all reminiscing,  anecdotes about the old 'silver fox' were on everyone's lips on every corner of the field.
     So this is my last post about Shane and my last Goodbye to a very special man who touched many lives and many many hearts.
     Today his eldest boy has his 'passing out' parade and I'm sure Shane will be there watching to ensure his son starts his military duties in style.  So Good Luck Jack, I'm sure you'll make everyone proud!  

love Dede xxxxxxxxxx